TV Versus Me: How to have a well rounded child.

Every parent needs a break sometimes. I mean really needs a break from the get-it-for-me, pat-my-back, I'm-hungry, where's-your-other-sock-now, come-wipe-me events that make up at least the first hour of your child's day. Life with children is hectic on a continuous basis and can be extremely trying. So when Sponge Bob comes on, it is, without a doubt, really tempting to let your child's eyes glaze over and have a Calgon moment. However, before you take your eye of the ball and leave Bert and Ernie on suicide watch, there are a few things to consider.

While there are times that you are tired of your child (yes, there are times), remember, your child is never tired of you. This doesn't mean that you don't absolutely love your baby, the apple of your eye, it just means you're human. However, too often nowadays people plop their children down in front of the television and expect a self-confident, well-mannered, socially-adjusted person to sprout out of the carpet while the housework gets done. This simply isn't possible. Your children need interaction; they need touch and play and conversation.

Think about it, your child will have more fun with you if you are fully engaged and not in the middle of folding laundry. (I use this as an example only, but in no way am I saying you have to start folding laundry. Who has the time for that?) In the balance of TV versus Me, the important thing to remember is that screen time cannot be what your child spends more time with during the day (this includes video games). If your life is busy and there are tons of things to do, then do them, but in a planned out organized chunk.

For example: Sesame Street is an hour long. You can certainly put some laundry in the washer, and sit down to pay bills. Half an hour later, switch the laundry to the dryer, and vacuum. When the Street is over, you and junior are ready to head outside for quality one-on-one time. Also, remember that children love to help. Teach them how to help around the house, let them be included in the work load. They can hand you laundry, dust, put their toys away, sweep the floor, etc. This not only gives them a sense of belonging in the family's core, but also teaches them responsibility.